Being called “Fat” is an offensive slur. So why is that, exactly?
Everyone was left wondering what actually happened after a mother of two called Allison shared her account of what happened while she and her children were swimming recently on Instagram. When the 3-year-old daughter dubbed Allison “obese,” Allison reacted beautifully, and her retort is being widely shared online.
When Allison Kimmey was barely 14 years old, she started dieting. She managed to maintain a size two to four body throughout graduate school, but it was difficult and she wasn’t happy. Allison realized she’d be more happier if she allowed herself to stop battling her weight gain when she reached size eight three years ago, at the age of 27.
In order to motivate herself, Allison started the @allisonkimmey Instagram account, where she publishes pictures and quotes. Although Allison’s message of body acceptance inspires and uplifts those who hear it, not everyone does.
Recently, Allison took her son and daughter to the pool. When it was time to depart, Allison’s child shouted at her and called her fat. Allison shared on Instagram that
Me: “Exactly what were you saying about me?”
She said, “I warned you were overweight, mama, I’m sorry.”
Me: “Let’s talk about it. It’s true that I’m not overweight. Nobody is overweight. It is impossible to be it. However, I am obese. We are all fat. In addition to providing us with energy, fat protects our muscles and bones and keeps our bodies working. Are you obese?
She says, “Yes! I currently have some on my stomach.
That’s accurate, I say. Both I and your brother concur.
Her Brother: “I don’t have any body fat. I’m the thinnest. I’ve only gained muscle.
Me: “Yes, there are obese people in every country. But our particular amounts differ.
Her Brother: “Alright, I get it. I have some so I can keep my strong muscles! I own less than you do, though.
Me: I’m sure that’s true. While some people are extraordinarily affluent, others are not. But that does not mean that one person is better than another. Do you two comprehend?
Both say, “Yes, Mother.”
Could you repeat what I said, please?
They: “Yeah! Everyone has some fat, and that is acceptable, as you can’t just be obese. I shouldn’t call anyone fat, though.
I said, “That’s right!”
Allison wanted to teach her children social skills, but she also wanted to instill the idea that everyone is equal, regardless of body shape. Since then, her Instagram post has gained a lot of popularity.
The idea that being obese is unpleasant, filthy, funny and underserved gets spread if I reprimand my children when they use it. Allison penned this.
What a strong lady! We need to be better at encouraging one another rather than judging one another primarily on how we come across to others. Post if you concur!
